Wednesday, September 20, 2006

So. Last night Rayna and I had a really good talk before bed..well while in our separate beds, just before we fell asleep. This is what I love the most about having a roomate. I don't even know when or how the conversation ended, I think I probably just fell asleep. The point is, we're a lot a like... but we're also different in a lot of ways. Enough to still be our individual selves...
Anyways. Another note... I'm a hypocrite. Alot of the time I get mad at people for judging people on their first opinion on them, but I think it's part of human nature- a retarded part- because I sometimes catch myself doing the same thing. Ive been shown recently through a lot of people, that I can often be wrong about people. I made a promies to myself awhile ago, that I would never intentionally hate someone. I'd always try to find the best in people. It's a hard thing to do, but it's totally worth it. As I've found ,you can meet a lot of amazing wicked people when you just take a step back from your high pedistal and just give them a chance.
I'm also completely tired of hearing people bad talk my friends, thinking they know them, when they don't. I am not friends with people who treat others like crap, or with people who are self absorbed or selfish, inconsiderate or rude. So think about that before you claim that my friends are such things. I choose my company wisely. Give people a chance. Don't hear a rumor or gossip about something and automatically subject it to your opinion of that person. For one, gossip is faltered, inaccurate, and deceiving. It's never correct. So. Take a step away from the crowd and remember to think on your own. See what happens.

that is all.

1 comment:

Ashley said...

I have a problem with Judging people too, and im trying really hard this year to not let it influence my decisions bout what i think bout peope... like my cousin.... for instance, and i've realized that we dont' have that right... so I've been struggling wit hthat too, and i just wanted u to know htat, and to tell you that i know how u feel... love ya girl